The latest update!

Okeydokes, it's been a while since I've written in this thing. Fact is, I haven't had much interest in updating it.

That said, we'll revisit what I've been up to recently. FA and I are still going strong, which is very good news for me and not so faboo for the slutty, slutty boys of Naptown. I have to say (and I believe I've said it before) FA has been such an amazing influence in my life....well...words can't describe it.

He makes me giddy
He makes me feel like I'm the most important person in the world
He respects my need for alone time
He respects my need to be clingy and romantic
He's an amazing kisser
He's better in bed
He supports my silly thoughts
He's as close to a 50% partner than I've ever come across
He comes with travel benefits
He is cuter than a bug's ear
He doesn't come with the baggage that I've encountered with the other black guys I've been with
He is absolutely unafraid of PDA
He doesn't laugh at me when I dance

This is just a short summary of why I'm still digging on this guy. Shift up to a recap of my previous relationships, and I think you'll understand why FA hits a home run where my previous ones have left me slightly dry.

OH! We took a vacation together. Add to the list:

I can travel with him without wanting to kill him

It was a short sojurn to a place he has history in, Richmond, VA. Nonetheless, I had the opportunity to meet some friends of his, and also I missed the chance to meet one of his closest friends, a fact that still bugs me a bit. To add to my glowing list of FA reviews:

His friends, without fail, tell me what an amazing guy he is

That's perhaps the best review of all. I was almost tired of hearing it after a while. By the same token, it was an incredible thing to hear over and over again, and it made me feel like the luckiest guy in the world to call him my own.

God, I just made myself nauseous.

Before I continue, I'll issue a caveat that if that previous post made you woozy in the tummy, you're gonna blow chunks after reading this next one. Wrap the keyboard in Saran....

Now, I'll admit, and most guys who know me well will unequivocally admit that I am...uhh...community property That's polite parlance for saying I'm sorta slutty. Not in a vicious way or anything, but facts is facts. I like sex.

a lot.

As such, I can honestly say that a lot of guys have seen my pee-pee on webcams, etc. it's something that excites me in a way because it's an exhibitionistic thing that one can do without the threat of being arrested. (this is another story entirely, and one that is saved for a better time.)

I had to tell you that story to tell you this one--I'm totally monogamous with FA. To the point that I can look at a cute guy, and think--man he's HOT! But I don't want to shtup him. Again, for them that know me, you'll realize that this is totally out of character for me There's just one that I want to boink, and it's my dear sweet FA.

Enough of my blathering...Be well, and be loved.